The Date From Hell
He Fell For Someone Else On Their Date!
All names have been changed to protect the innocent and the guilty!
This happened to me last weekend. It was a guy I liked at the time, but not any more. We had a date for Friday, nothing specific. It was to be our 2nd official date); he asked me out. At around 7 pm, I received a text message asking "what's up?" Bottom line, this time-consuming stuff continued for 3 hours and we did not meet up for the date until after 10 pm.
I was obviously upset by then, and he kept asking me what was wrong. I knew at this point that I should have just cancelled, but I had spend a week building up to this and wanted to see how things would go. I decided that he was not the greatest planner.
We went to a nearby bar for friendly drinks and maybe some dancing. When we got there, I worked on persuading a guy to give up his seat at the bar top; the place was packed.
My date took off to the restroom and requested for a drink order while he was away.
When he came back, he had a girl glued to his arm.... the biggest confusion yet in my life.
Apparently, she had picked up on him between the time I was persuading the guy to give us seats and ordering drinks for us.
I spent the next hour watching this stupid drama. The girl had issues, including a boyfriend who was supposedly cheating on her while she trying to steal my date.
I was completely calm and ladylike for over an hour listening to most of this. They even went dancing while I sat there alone. I was fuming.
Before long, my date was exchanging text messages, inviting this girl to go to Mexico (without any mention of inviting me), and buying drinks for her.
I was humiliated. I could not believe this even could happen. Right there in front of my face !!!
I decided to leave, and my date certainly had the look of shock. This obviously drunk girl was begging him to stay and offering him a ride, since I was his ride home!
We did leave together but I have decided to never see this guy ever again - at best as a friend only.
He apologized over and over, but there is no way I would ever trust him or get past this kind of treatment.
He tried to justify his actions by the fact that I was talking to another guy when we initially got to the bar for the chairs. I am simply shocked, horrified, humiliated, disrespected etc etc !!!!!!